Weight Loss vs. Fat Loss: Why the Scale is Lying to You

Weight Loss vs. Fat Loss: Why the Scale is Lying to You

Weight Loss vs. Fat Loss: Why the Scale is Lying to You

If you’ve ever stepped on the scale and felt frustrated—even after weeks of hard work—you’re not alone. Most people believe weight loss and fat loss are the same thing, but they’re completely different.

Focusing only on the number on the scale can lead to plateaus, frustration, and even muscle loss—all while sabotaging your long-term results. So, if you’ve been chasing weight loss and wondering why your body isn’t changing the way you expected, this post is for you.



What’s the Difference Between Weight Loss and Fat Loss?

Let’s break it down:

  • Weight loss = The total number on the scale decreasing. This includes water weight, muscle, and even bone density—not just fat.
  • Fat loss = A reduction in body fat while maintaining (or building) muscle mass, leading to a leaner, more defined body.

The key takeaway?
Losing weight doesn’t necessarily mean you’re losing fat. In fact, rapid weight loss can often result in muscle loss, which slows metabolism, weakens your body, and makes future fat loss harder.

Watch this video to learn why weight loss and fat loss aren’t the same—and what you should focus on instead.



Why Focusing on the Scale is a Huge Mistake

If the scale is your main measure of progress, you might be missing real changes happening in your body. Here’s why:

1️⃣ The Scale Doesn’t Show Body Composition
You could be losing fat and gaining muscle, yet the scale barely moves. That’s because muscle weighs more than fat but takes up less space—meaning your body is shrinking, even if your weight stays the same.

2️⃣ Water Weight Fluctuations Can Mislead You
Your weight can fluctuate 2-5 pounds daily due to water retention, sodium intake, hormonal changes, or even how much food is in your digestive system. A higher number doesn’t mean fat gain—it could just be water or food weight.

3️⃣ Muscle Loss Slows Your Metabolism
If your approach to weight loss is severe calorie restriction, excessive cardio, or crash dieting, you’re likely losing muscle along with fat. Less muscle = a slower metabolism = more fat storage in the future.



Fat Loss is the Goal: Here’s How to Make it Happen

If you’re serious about getting leaner, stronger, and healthier, shifting your focus to fat loss instead of weight loss is key.

Here’s how:

1. Track the Right Metrics (Not Just the Scale)

Instead of relying on a number, track:
✅ Body measurements (waist, hips, arms, legs)
✅ Progress photos (taken monthly)
✅ How your clothes fit
✅ Strength levels (are you lifting heavier over time?)

The scale may go down, but these methods give a much clearer picture of real fat loss progress.


2. Prioritize Strength Training

Lifting weights preserves and builds muscle, which:

  • Increases metabolism
  • Helps you lose inches and look more toned
  • Prevents the “skinny fat” look that comes from losing muscle

Aim for 3-5 strength training sessions per week, focusing on compound movements like squats, deadlifts, and presses.


3. Eat to Fuel Your Body (Not Just Cut Calories)

Instead of drastically cutting calories, focus on:
High-protein meals (aim for 0.8-1g protein per pound of body weight)
Balanced macros (carbs + healthy fats + protein = sustainable fat loss)
Enough calories to support muscle retention

Crash dieting leads to weight loss, but at the cost of your metabolism and long-term fat-burning ability.


4. Use Cardio as a Tool—Not a Crutch

Cardio is great for heart health, but too much can eat away at muscle. Instead of endless treadmill sessions, focus on:
Strength training first
Daily movement (walking, steps, lifestyle activity)
Short, intense HIIT workouts (1-2x per week)

Cardio should support fat loss—not be the foundation of it.



The Bottom Line: Do You Want to Lose Weight or Lose Fat?

Ask yourself:
Do you want to see a smaller number on the scale but feel weak and soft?
Or do you want to lose fat, build muscle, and feel stronger in your body?

Focusing on fat loss means:
✔️ Keeping your metabolism high
✔️ Building muscle for long-term fat-burning
✔️ Seeing real, visible body changes—not just a lower scale number

Watch the full video to learn exactly how to shift from weight loss to fat loss:

Stop chasing the scale—focus on what really matters!

 

Weight Loss vs. Muscle Gain: How to Know What to Focus on First

Weight Loss vs. Muscle Gain: How to Know What to Focus on First

Weight Loss vs. Muscle Gain: How to Know What to Focus on First

If you’ve been struggling to lose fat and build muscle at the same time, you’re not alone. Many women over 40 feel stuck in this cycle—wanting to lose weight for a leaner look while also building muscle to tone and strengthen their body.

But here’s the truth: trying to do both at the same time is inefficient. While body recomposition (losing fat while gaining muscle) is possible under certain conditions, alternating between fat loss and muscle-building phases is far more effective for most people.

So how do you know which goal to focus on first? Let’s break it down.


The Key Difference Between Fat Loss and Muscle Gain

To understand why you can’t maximize both goals at once, you need to know the basics:

  • Fat loss requires a calorie deficit, meaning you eat fewer calories than your body burns so that it taps into stored fat for energy.
  • Muscle gain requires a calorie surplus, meaning you eat more than your body needs so that it has enough fuel to build and repair muscle tissue.

Fat loss is a catabolic process (breaking down tissue).
Muscle gain is an anabolic process (building tissue).

These two processes contradict each other. If you’re always in a deficit, you won’t be able to build muscle efficiently. If you’re always in a surplus, you won’t shed body fat effectively.

This is why strategically alternating between the two goals is the smarter, more sustainable approach.


Why Trying to Do Both at the Same Time Isn’t Ideal

You may have heard of body recomposition—losing fat while gaining muscle at the same time. And yes, it can happen, but it’s not the most efficient strategy for most women.

Who can benefit from body recomposition?
Beginners to strength training (newbie gains allow muscle growth even in a deficit).
Women with higher body fat percentages (above 30% body fat).
Those returning from a long break (muscle memory helps regain lost muscle).

If you don’t fall into one of these categories, trying to lose fat and build muscle at the same time usually leads to frustration. You might see slow or no progress in either direction—leading to plateaus and lack of motivation.

Bottom line: If you want noticeable changes in your body composition, it’s best to focus on one goal at a time rather than spinning your wheels trying to do both.


When to Focus on Fat Loss First

You should prioritize fat loss if:
You have a higher body fat percentage (above 30%) – Losing fat first will help you see more muscle definition later.
Your main goal is aesthetics – If you want a leaner, more toned look, fat loss is the first step.
Your energy levels feel low – Carrying extra weight can make movement feel sluggish, and dropping excess fat can improve how you feel.

What to do:

  • Eat in a moderate calorie deficit (not extreme!)
  • Strength train 2–4 times per week to retain muscle.
  • Focus on protein intake to preserve lean mass.
  • Use cardio as a tool, but don’t overdo it—strength training should still be the foundation.

Pro Tip: If you’ve been dieting for years with little success, you may need a metabolism reset before diving into another fat loss phase.


When to Focus on Muscle Gain First

You should prioritize muscle gain if:
You’ve been dieting for a long time – If you’ve been eating low calories and your progress has stalled, your metabolism likely needs a break.
You feel weak or lack muscle tone – You can’t “tone” muscle that doesn’t exist, so building it first will give you a better shape when you do lose fat.
Your goal is long-term sustainability – More muscle means a higher metabolism, making future fat loss easier.

What to do:

  • Eat at maintenance or in a small surplus (100-300 extra calories daily).
  • Strength train 3–5 times per week, focusing on progressive overload.
  • Keep cardio minimal, using it for overall health rather than fat loss.
  • Prioritize rest and recovery—muscle grows outside the gym, not just during workouts.

Pro Tip: Muscle-building phases don’t mean you have to “bulk.” A small calorie surplus is enough to gradually build muscle without excess fat gain.


Why Alternating Phases Works Best

Instead of trying to do both at once, a better strategy is to cycle between fat loss and muscle-building phases depending on your needs.

Example Plan:
Muscle Building Phase (3-6 months) → Focus on strength, eat slightly above maintenance, and build lean mass.
Fat Loss Phase (8-12 weeks) → Reduce calories slightly, maintain strength training, and lose excess fat.

This approach ensures consistent progress, prevents plateaus, and makes each phase more effective.


How to Decide What to Focus on First

Still unsure whether YOU should choose weight loss vs muscle gain? Use this decision guide:

➡️ If your body fat is over 30% and you want to lean out → Start with Fat Loss.
➡️ If you’re already fairly lean but lack muscle tone → Start with Muscle Gain.
➡️ If you’ve been dieting forever and feel stuck → Take a break and build muscle first.


Final Thoughts: The Smarter Approach to Body Composition

Trying to lose fat and build muscle at the same time can leave you spinning your wheels. Instead, focusing on one goal at a time—then switching phases—yields better results, faster.

By strategically alternating between muscle-building and fat loss phases, you’ll not only get better results but also make your journey more sustainable and enjoyable.

Need guidance on the best plan for YOU? Check out the Eat More 2 Weigh Less Training App, where I’ve already mapped out a full year of periodized training to help you build muscle, lose fat, and create a strong, lean body that lasts.

Is It Harder For Women To Lose Weight Than Men?

Is It Harder For Women To Lose Weight Than Men?

Is It Harder For Women To Lose Weight Than Men?… The age-old question.

Yes. It’s not your imagination.

The female fat loss struggle is REAL.

If you’re anything like me, you’ve had at least one experience of spending an inordinate amount of time recruiting a male accountability partner (“hey, let’s do this diet together…please…please”) – only to end up frustrated when he finally agrees and seems to get ALL the results.

Sure, you start off strong and have WAY more willpower, but eventually, you hit a plateau, and he…doesn’t. Of course, this is an oversimplification of gender (not all men lose fat super easily), but men definitely have a few advantages over us.

This podcast discusses the five reasons why fat loss is harder for women.

Here’s a sneak peek into today’s episode…

> [1:30] 5 Reasons Why It’s Harder For Women To Lose Weight
> [2:12] #1 Focus on the Scale
> [5:25] #2 Hormones
> [9:29] #3 Muscle
> [12:36] #4 Diet Preferences
> [17:17] #5 Patience

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About The Diet Rebel Podcast
If you are a woman who hates having to choose between loving your body and changing it, this podcast is for you. In this podcast, we talk about everything from loving your body exactly as it is now to becoming the fittest, leanest, and tonest you’ve ever been – no matter HOW old you are, how many tiny humans you’ve birthed, or how many times you’ve lost & regained the same (15 or 50!) lbs! Seriously, you don’t want to miss it! So grab a snack, preferably protein based (lol), sit back and enjoy the Diet Rebel podcast. Brought to you by Eat More 2 Weigh Less @ eatmore2weighless.com

 

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Low Carb vs. Low Fat Diets

Low Carb vs. Low Fat Diets

Low Carb vs. Low Fat and how to determine which one is best for you. Is there even a reason why you have to choose in the first place? I guess we will see as we talk about this in today’s podcast episode.

Low carb today is what low fat was in the nineties. We keep resurrecting many identical diets over and over, and low carb has come in so many variations, from Atkins to Keto. Hence, there are different ranges of what people consider “low carb,” from no carb to low carb and anywhere in between. Many people are wondering if that is a route they should take and in this podcast, you get to listen in on a previous Q&A with my clients we break down the details to help you decide.
 

Here’s a sneak peek into today’s episode…

> [0:40] Why Do You Have To Choose?
> [3:55] Protein is Non-Negotiable
> [4:41] Fat or Carbs?
> [7:05] #1 Taste Preference
> [10:09] #2 Calorie Deficit Preference
> [13:32] What’s Best For You?
 
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About The Diet Rebel Podcast
If you are a woman who hates having to choose between loving your body and changing it, this podcast is for you. In this podcast, we talk about everything from loving your body exactly as it is now to becoming the fittest, leanest, and tonest you’ve ever been – no matter HOW old you are, how many tiny humans you’ve birthed, or how many times you’ve lost & regained the same (15 or 50!) lbs! Seriously, you don’t want to miss it! So grab a snack, preferably protein based (lol), sit back and enjoy the Diet Rebel podcast. Brought to you by Eat More 2 Weigh Less @ eatmore2weighless.com
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How To Lose Fat WITHOUT Cutting Calories

How To Lose Fat WITHOUT Cutting Calories

In this week’s episode, we’re talking how to lose fat WITHOUT cutting calories. If you’re at a point where that’s a struggle for you – maybe you could do it a couple of days, and then you tend to start falling off the wagon again, or you just don’t ever wanna reduce your calories but still want to lose the fat, this is the episode for you.

We’ve talked a lot about resetting if you’re at the very beginning of your journey. I know that cutting is crucial to most of us, so I want to discuss the fat loss portion of this and how you can prepare for that in your reset because that’s what the reset is all about.

Essentially, when we’re talking about fat loss, calories in verse calories out is slightly more nuanced than it seems. Fat loss is ultimately determined by your energy input versus output, and energy just means calories. Long story short, you’re focusing on how many calories you’re consuming versus how many calories you’re burning. Basically, how you maneuver that and how that works into your plan. So this will all come together, and you’re going to be able to pick and choose from these methods that we’re gonna talk about in this episode and see how they incorporate into a way that maybe reflects you a little bit more or feels less restrictive to you. So let’s dive in!

Here’s a sneak peek into today’s episode…

> [2:54] Calories in Vs. Calories Out – Which should you be more focused on?
> [3:14] Eating Less or Burning More?
> [9:51] The 4 Ways We Burn Calories
> [12:10] #1 B.M.R. – 60% of Calories Burned
> [15:40] #2 N.E.A.T. – 15-50% of Calories
> [22:00] #3 T.E.F. – 10-15% of Calories
> [32:20] #4 E.A.T. – We are not discussing food. :)

Click Here to Listen To This Week’s Podcast

About The Diet Rebel Podcast
If you are a woman who hates having to choose between loving your body and changing it, this podcast is for you. In this podcast, we talk about everything from loving your body exactly as it is now to becoming the fittest, leanest, and tonest you’ve ever been – no matter HOW old you are, how many tiny humans you’ve birthed, or how many times you’ve lost & regained the same (15 or 50!) lbs! Seriously, you don’t want to miss it! So grab a snack, preferably protein based (lol), sit back and enjoy the Diet Rebel podcast. Brought to you by Eat More 2 Weigh Less @ eatmore2weighless.com
To support The Diet Rebel Podcast with Kiki Smith, make sure to follow, download, and share the podcast with your family and friends! Enjoy!⁠

Available on: Spotify, Google, Youtube and Amazon Music

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This EM2WL Client is down 20 lbs! Here’s how!

This EM2WL Client is down 20 lbs! Here’s how!

This EM2WL Client is down 20 lbs! Here’s how!

Are you curious about how our EM2WL clients are doing? In this video series, we’ll be highlighting one of our amazing success stories! This particular client has lost an impressive 20 lbs! Watch the youtube videos above to learn more about her journey and find out the tips and tricks she used to achieve such great results! We hope you find this information helpful and inspiring. Congratulations, Athena, on your incredible accomplishment! You should be very proud of yourself! Way to go!!! :)

 

Part 1: How to Cut For Fat Loss (Without Losing Muscle) – Kiki Reacts

Part 2: How to Accurately Measure Your Progress – Kiki Reacts

 

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Part 3: The Truth About Consistency – Kiki Reacts

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Part 4: DIETING: How It Can Make You GAIN WEIGHT – Kiki Reacts

 

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