Grilled Shrimp and Avocado Tostadas with Mango Salsa and Chipotle Cream

Grilled Shrimp and Avocado Tostadas with Mango Salsa and Chipotle Cream

Kellie from The Suburban Soapbox is back to share another yummy recipe!  This one is a little bit spicy, a little bit sweet and totally delicious!

I’m happy to be back again for another guest post at EM2WL!  It’s been a busy couple of weeks and I think we finally saw our last snow flake.  I think.  I hope.  I can see my grill so it’s an exciting time of year.  I love to grill because it’s the easiest way to impart flavor and crusty goodness without adding any fat!  AND bonus points because you have less dishes to clean. 

Shrimp TostadasWe went to Mexico for Thanksgiving.  I don’t travel during the holidays because I’m a creature of habit…or tradition.  I like spending my holidays in familiar surroundings with familiar family and, even more, familiar food.  Have you ever seen a turkey in Mexico?  I’m sure they exist but I’m equally sure the hotel had a contract with Butterball.  So, on Thanksgiving day…I had a shrimp tostada for lunch. And an enchilada for dinner. The Pilgrims would be so jealous.

USUALLY, I’m knee-deep in sausage stuffing and mashed potatoes with, constantly full, glass of wine in my left hand. This past year, I was knee-deep in the Caribbean.  It was weird and surreal.  I missed my familiar.  I know, I sound like a brat.

Back to the tostada…my shrimp tostadas in Mexico were tiny…and they were a little on the “could use more zest” side.  So, as I was stuffing my face on the beach…in Mexico…on Thanksgiving day…not with turkey and gravy…I vowed to make my own version at home.  I wanted more heat, more kick, more avocado.  And I wanted a fresh, fruity salsa.

The last bit of snow we had a week ago made me miss my Mexico trip a little bit…so, I whipped up a fresh, fruity salsa with an amazingly ripe and juicy mango.  (So rare in these parts this time of year!)  And I spiced up some shrimp and tossed them into a grill pan.  (I couldn’t get to my grill…it was still under several inches of snow.)  AND I whipped up a creamy, fiery chipotle sauce tamed just a little bit with some honey.  Perfect. Combination.

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Grilled Shrimp and Avocado Tostadas with Mango Salsa and Chipotle Cream

Serves 6
Allergy Shellfish
Meal type Lunch, Main Dish
Misc Serve Hot
Region Mexican
Website The Suburban Soapbox

Ingredients

  • 6 6-inch corn tortillas
  • 1lb medium shrimp (peeled and deveined)
  • 1/4 teaspoon kosher salt
  • 1/2 teaspoon garlic powder
  • 1 teaspoon chili powder
  • 1/4 teaspoon fresh ground pepper
  • 1/2 cup low-fat plain greek yogurt (I use Chobani 2% Plain greek yogurt)
  • 1 tablespoon honey
  • 1 can chipotle chile (in adobo sauce)
  • 1/2 teaspoon adobo sauce (from the canned chipotle chile)
  • 1 mango (peeled and diced)
  • 1/2 red bell pepper
  • 1 tablespoon fresh parsley (chopped)
  • 1/3 cup red onion (diced)
  • juice and zest of one lime
  • 2 avocados (sliced)

Directions

In a small frying pan coated with cooking spray, add the tortilla and cook over med-low heat until lightly toasted and crispy. Repeat with remaining tortillas and set aside.
In a small bowl, combine the shrimp, salt, garlic powder, chili powder and pepper. Toss to combine.
Heat a grill pan over med-high heat, add the shrimp and cook for 2-3 minutes or until bright pink. Turn the shrimp over and continue to cook until no longer translucent. Transfer to a plate and keep warm until all the shrimp are cooked.
In the bowl of a small food processor or blender, blend the yogurt, honey, chipotle chili and adobo until smooth. Season with salt and pepper. Set aside.
In a medium bowl, combine the mango, bell pepper, parsley, red onion, lime zest and juice. Set aside.
Top each tostada with equal amounts of avocado and then top the avocado with equal amounts of shrimp. Spoon the mango salsa on top of each tostada and drizzle the chipotle cream over the salsa. Serve immediately.

Note

You can make the chipotle cream and salsa up to two days in advance.  Store in an airtight container in the refrigerator until ready to serve.

Stress Free Eating Out

Stress Free Eating Out

 

Several years ago when I decided I wanted to live a healthier lifestyle, I thought of all the things I would change. Things like never eating sugar, actually anything white got the axe, except for egg whites and cauliflower. I subscribed to Clean Eating magazine and vowed that I would cook all my meals and never step foot in my company cafeteria again.  For the most part, I decided eating out basically had no place in my new lifestyle.

Eventually I stopped going out to eat altogether or, when I did, I smuggled in my own food. Yep, I brought my Rubbermaid to restaurants.  I even started turning my nose up at going to dinner at friends’ homes.  After all, they didn’t eat like I did, or heaven forbid, steam their vegetables.

NeuroticLooking back, you might say I was a bit neurotic and I would wholeheartedly agree.  The truth is, I was trying to control every aspect of my diet, but it was a joy-sucking chore and the worst part was that it was unnecessary. I tried to control every element of my diet and it was depressing.

Oh, I felt accomplished, but now I realize that I really was deprived. I missed out on sharing good times and meals with friends and family and even potential professional opportunities as I especially steered clear of work outings. I must admit, I’m still not too fond of the office cafeteria, but when the odds of you getting food poisoning aren’t in your favor, you would be too.

When you decide that you’re going to adopt a healthier lifestyle, you may think you need to forgo eating out, because staying at home gives you more control over what you eat.

But dining out is about so much more than just the food.  Don’t miss out on socializing with friends, panicking over what to eat when you’re traveling or just enjoying a night off from cooking.

Pull up a chair. Take a taste. Come join us. Life is so endlessly delicious.
― Ruth Reichl

Stress free eating out is enjoyable, and with a few tips, it becomes no big deal.

Plan ahead

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Save room for the good stuff!

When dining at a new restaurant,  go online to check out the menu.  This will help set you up for success.  Knowing what you’re going to eat when you walk in the door or having narrowed down the selection to a few choices ensures that you have thought through your meal and it will be more balanced than, say if you just ate on a whim.  Figure out where your protein, fat and carbs will come from.  If there’s a dessert that you really want to try, you’ll know not to dive into the bread basket or load up on a side of mash.

Mind Your Portions and Macros

If you are an avid calorie counter and tend to weigh your food regularly, you probably have a good sense of what your portion sizes are.  This can get a bit trickier as you move away from calorie counting, but it’s nothing to worry about.  Take notice of the portion size of food you eat when at home and simply eat to the same scale when eating out and take the rest home for lunch the next day.

For the intuitive eater, you probably already have a system in place for managing your portion sizes and macros.  As a general rule I eat about 1-1/2 palm size of protein, ½ palm of fat, a fist of starchy carbs and as many veggies as I want.  This can be adjusted depending on current goals, but in general, this is what I do.  Over time this just becomes a habit and pretty much effortless whether eating at home or away.  It’s also portable!

Another great tip whether eating at home or out on the town is to eat your food slowly.  It takes about 20 minutes for your brain to send out satiety signals.  Slowing down your eating will allow you to stop eating before getting over full.  Plus, if you’re enjoying a splurge, why not savor each and every bite?

Stress Free Eating - Chicken Tikka Masala - Yummm!

Chicken Tikka Masala – Yummm!

Watch Out for Sneaky Calories

What sounds like a pretty healthy meal can actually turn out to be a calorie bomb.  Stay on the lookout for dishes that have sauces or are creamed, crispy, breaded…you get the idea.  Not that you have to steer clear all the time, but know what you are eating.  Of course beverages like soda, juices, lemonades, etc., unless they have a sugar substitute, are usually packed with calories as well and probably should be avoided in general.  Opt for sparkling water or unsweetened tea instead.

Eating Out Mindfully and Stress-free

To sum things up, if you eat out regularly or travel a lot, aim to eat a bit closer to what you would normally eat at home most of the time.  Over indulging on the regular won’t help you reach your goals and will probably just lead to a lot of frustration.

If you eat out a bit less frequently and want to splurge, go for it.  If you happen to be going to the restaurant that makes the best vodka sauce in town, enjoy!  I am a sucker for chicken tikka masala and make a point to get to my favorite Indian restaurant every now and again.   It is definitely a splurge as not only do I eat the tikka masala, but I sop up the sauce with naan as well!

A splurge once in a while will have minimal impact on your progress when looking at the bigger picture, but may do wonders for your soul!  Don’t miss out on the simple yet fulfilling things by limiting your diet to only what is prepared by you.  Get out and enjoy life!

 

 

 

Photo credit: stockimages, kimberlykv, preppybyday

DIET BREAK: Is it just hype?

DIET BREAK: Is it just hype?

With the onset of your cut, it’s important to remember that it is just another phase of your fitness journey.  Another step along a journey of many steps.  As fat starts to shed it may be tempting to stay in this phase for the fat loss benefits.  But rest assured, you’ll find that over time if you cut too long or too deep, it will work against you rather than in your favor.  So, what to do?  Cue the diet break.

As the name suggests, a diet break is just that, a break from your diet and a return to maintenance or eating at TDEE.  Diet breaks can come in several forms, from simply a cheat meal or a refeed day to a full diet break which can last for a couple of weeks.

diet breakWHY ARE DIET BREAKS NECESSARY

During your cut phase, cals are adjusted slightly below TDEE with a 5-15% deficit.  When cals are reduced, your metabolic rate slows to accommodate the decreased intake.  Similarly when fat loss or weight loss occurs, your metabolic rate can also be impacted.  This slowing of the metabolic rate can, in turn, slow your fat loss.  Quite the vicious cycle, I know.  To add further insult to injury, if you stay too long in a deficit, your body will start to adjust and think your deficit is actually your new maintenance.  When fat loss stalls you may instinctively want to decrease calories further, however, this could potentially do more harm than good.  By taking a diet break, you help return your metabolic rate to normal as well as your hormone levels, all of which will aid the fat loss process once you return to eating at cut.  Additionally, a diet break can also serve as a psychological break if you struggle with sticking with your plan.

WHEN TO TAKE A DIET BREAK

Diet breaks should be planned anywhere from 4-12 weeks of your cut phase and should last for 1-2 weeks.  If you have a vacation, special occasion or even a stressful time ahead, this would be the perfect time to write a diet break into your schedule.  After all, if you’re vacationing you’ll probably want to kick back, loosen up the diet strings a bit and enjoy a little indulgence.  Why fight it?  The same can be said for times of stress.  Scheduling a diet break might lessen the load slightly.

diet breakHOW TO DO A DIET BREAK

As already mentioned, a diet break is a return to maintenance calorie intake.  If you’ve adjusted your macros during your cut, you’ll want to return these to maintenance levels as well.  Carbs are generally the most manipulated macro during cut, so be sure to bring this back to normal.  As usual, your protein shouldn’t change much and should be at least 1g/lb bodyweight.  Although cut phases should never be overly restrictive, if you are cutting back on any foods or macro groups, this is a great time for a comeback!  Now, a diet break should not be confused with a free for all or an excuse to visit your local all-you-can-eat buffet.  Stick to your maintenance cals and macros and you’ll do fine.

BONUS

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Interestingly you may find that as you increase your cals for your diet break you may experience a whoosh or drop on the scale.  This whooshing affect may be the result of water being released from fat cells which previously stored fat.  You may also find that during your cut phase you weren’t able to perform as well with some lifts due to the reduced cals and possibly lower carbs.  If that was the case, you should find your strength return to normal during the diet break and return to maintenance cals and macros.

There are many reasons to incorporate planned diet breaks into your nutrition plan.  From a physiological perspective, the full diet break is recommended as it allows your body to return to normal levels, which in turn can aid your fat loss efforts.  From a psychological perspective, it’s just nice to return to maintenance eating for a little while.  With that said, it is strongly recommended for anyone doing a cut phase to include a full diet break at least every 12 weeks, if not more frequently, into your plan.  While it seems counter-intuitive, trust that it will work in your favor in the long run.

 

 

Photo credit: stuart miles, Serge Bertasias Photography, stockimages

Family Meal Planning

Family Meal Planning

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Combining family and fitness

Trust me, as a busy momma of five children I understand that feeding a family, presents its own unique challenges.  When you are working towards eating for your fitness goals, that can be even more challenging.  And if you throw an food-allergic child or two into the mix, things really get interesting!

For years, I allowed these challenges to overwhelm me to the point that I figured there was no way I could possibly lose weight or become fit.  I allowed excuse after excuse to creep in, and eventually just stopped trying.  Years later, I came to a point where I realized that my excuses finally caught up to me.  I had to make a way to embrace my challenges and succeed in the midst of them.

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2010 – I’m smiling, but can remember dreading getting family pictures done because I hated the way that I looked. My life has completely turned around!

I’ve been at this for about three years now.  After struggling to lose weight despite being on one diet right after the other, I learned that our whole family needed to embrace the changes that I was attempting to undertake.  Fortunately, I am blessed with a great support system in my husband and children.  Today, all of us are healthier, more active, and happier.  Instead of looking at this like a diet, our whole family’s lifestyle changed.

Over the past three years, I have emphasized eating for different goals including powerlifting performance, weight loss, muscle gain, and fat loss. However, our family’s approach to eating has remained fairly consistent.

Below are a few things I’ve learned along the way…

 

Ditch the Diet Mentality

This sure doesn't look like a diet to me! Big breakfasts are something our family loves to enjoy together.

This sure doesn’t look like a diet to me! Big breakfasts are something our family loves to enjoy together.

There’s no reason that you should have to prepare separate meals for you and your children.

Even if you’re eating enough calories, preparing separate meals tends to make you feel like you’re on a diet. This feeling of mental restriction may actually trigger binge eating.

With a little recipe tweaking, even kid-pleasing family favorites like pizza, tacos and spaghetti can be included into your weekly meal rotation.  Simple tweaks like adding a serving of protein, adding more veggies, or trying out a healthier twist on a recipe can ensure that you are hitting your macros.  Get creative in the kitchen!

Have a weekly meal plan and stick to it

This can be as detailed as you want! To begin with, I’d recommend coming up with a list of weekly dinners. It may be helpful to ask for some input from your family as you are coming up with your list. I usually keep a list of meals on the refrigerator, and will sometimes ask my family which meal sounds best to them in the morning.

groceries

The good, the bad, and the ugly…a typical trip to the grocery store includes lots of whole foods, and plenty of treats too!

If you’re stuck in a cooking rut, you might check out our Pinterest boards for some healthy alternatives to family favorites. Your local library probably has some great cookbooks that you can check out for some new ideas.  Trying out a new recipe once a week can be a fun family adventure, and may lead to coming up with some new recipes!

If you are home all day with young children, it may be helpful to come up with a list of breakfasts and lunches that they can select from. Keep some options for easy meals on hand, and as they get older, allow them some freedom to make choices and prepare their own lunches or breakfasts.  It’s a great lesson in responsibility.  As a homeschool mom whose kids seem to always be hungry, this has been a huge time-saver for me.  Now that my oldest three are 13, 11, and 10, they are pretty self-sufficient and usually select pretty healthy meals for themselves.

After you’ve come up with your meal list for the week, make your grocery list so that you have everything on hand you need for a successful week of cooking (and eating).

 Plan a day for food prep

After your trip to the grocery store, it may be helpful to do a little food prep make the cooking process a bit faster.

S10240_543800028973262_1527378162_nince you already have all the groceries out, why not take a few extra minutes to think about the meals you have planned for the week ahead.  It only takes a few extra minutes after you get home from the store to cut and bag fresh veggies, cook up and freeze some hamburger meat for soups and casseroles, or separate foods into single-serving containers.

I like to do this on grocery shopping day because there are already so many things to put away! I usually prep a few casseroles for the freezer to give myself some quick grab-and-go meals for those busy nights when I don’t have a lot of extra time. I also tend to cook extra meats, rice, potatoes , or vegetables when I am already cooking so that I can re-purpose the leftovers into a whole other meal. Thinking ahead can save a lot of time in the long run!

Don’t keep self-sabotaging foods in the house

At EM2WL, we are all about including all foods into your healthy eating plan.  Nothing is off limits!  That being said,  however, many of us have foods that tend to be triggers to throw caution to the wind. It’s important for each of us to recognize our limits in this department. Keeping a lot of highly processed snack foods in the house “for the kids” may be a recipe for disaster if you are prone to occasional binges. Trust me, the kids will be okay without keeping them in the house.  Help them to come up with healthier alternatives for snacks instead! Know yourself and your limits.

Involve your kids in the kitchen

Getting your kids interested in eating healthfully can be as simple as inviting them into the kitchen.

brussel sprouts

Even my youngest loves brussel sprouts…and dark chocolate chips too…OF COURSE!

Not only does getting them in the kitchen teach them math skills, responsibility, and nutrition, it can also be a fun time spent just with you. Even very young children can help measure ingredients, pour, and stir together a recipe. An older child can be taught to make an entire recipe by themselves and will get tons of satisfaction proclaiming they made dinner “all by myself”! Spending time in the Besides, they are much more likely to try something different if they have helped you prepare it!

Take the time to educate your children about the importance of including all kinds of foods as part of a healthy and balanced diet. These important life skills will serve them well their whole lives!

Don’t completely eliminate treats

Having a moderate and balanced approach to all foods, including treats, is an important part of any successful approach to eating.

Food is fuel, but it is also an important part of our family get-togethers and celebrations. Plan on including some mini-indulgences in your eating plan now and then.

Bake some cookies with your kids. Enjoy a cupcake guilt-free at your little girl’s birthday party. Have a few slices of pizza during family movie night. Enjoy the freedom to pursue your health and fitness goals without sacrificing your sanity! This isn’t a diet, but a lifestyle. Consistency matters! Make choices that allow you to win at consistency.1450107_693508670669063_777258812_n


Becca is a busy wife and homeschooling mother to five children ages 5 to 13. About three years ago, she embarked on a journey to health and fitness that resulted in the loss of approximately 100 pounds. Today, she is a competitive powerlifter and strongwoman who loves ice cream and deadlifts.  As an ISSA certified personal trainer, she is passionate about helping women to get started on a lifestyle of strength and fitness.

Getting off Track – Defining Your Fitness Goals

Getting off Track – Defining Your Fitness Goals

Getting off track defining your fitness goals

Many people start their new year off strong, dedicated to the goals they set.  In the beginning, when your willpower is strong, it’s easy to make those changes for a happier, healthier and more active version of yourself.

But let’s face it.  Life is very rarely a smooth journey.  If you live in the real world, there are plenty of road blocks and obstacles along the way.  How you approach difficulty is going to make a huge difference in where you are in regards to your fitness goals a month, six months, or a year from now.

Some obstacles are foreseeable.  For these, it’s important to have a plan of attack.  What will your biggest obstacle be?  Do you struggle to find time to get in a workout? Is it difficult for you to remain consistent with your eating?  Are you challenged to get enough sleep?  Think about your options and write down a concrete plan in your fitness journal.  You may decide to wake up early to make it to the gym before the day’s obligations overwhelm you, or spend a Sunday afternoon prepping food for the week ahead.  Decide to set yourself up for success by coming up with a concrete plan that will carry you through those times when willpower is fading fast.

1. Redefine healthy eating.

At EM2WL, we emphasize not viewing your life as being “on track” and “off track.”  One of the greatest added benefits of fueling to lose is that you are taking in sufficient calories so you can plan for that piece of birthday cake or special date-night dinner.  Special treats can and should be incorporated into any healthy eating plan.  Rethink “healthy!”  Your healthy eating plan should be the one that will help you to reach your goals, taking into account the challenges and obstacles that you face.  Taking in sufficient calories to support your activity level and planning for consistency should be a major consideration.

Getting off track defining your fitness goalsWe are inundated with messages and lists of foods that are “good” and “bad.”  Let’s be realistic though, no one can exist forever on a diet of coconut oil, kale, and chicken breast.  Your healthy eating plan should be such that it accommodates real life-birthdays, holidays, date nights. Food is a part of many of our celebrations and should be enjoyed (in moderation, of course)!

It requires a major shift in your mental paradigm to accept that things we’ve labeled “bad”-things like sugar, carbs, and gluten can be a part of eating for your goals.  Instead of focusing on eating less (or eliminating) “off-limits” foods, focus on eating more wholesome, nutrient-dense foods and allow yourself a treat when you genuinely want it.

2. Forgive yourself!

Everyone who has been successful at making health and fitness a lifestyle knows that they can’t be perfect all the time.  There will be times you overdo it on sweets, or miss one too many workouts.  Do not beat yourself up!  If you feel like you’ve veered off track, determine to just move on right from where you are.  One or two days that are less-than-perfect are not going to spoil your long-term success, but don’t let a couple bad days turn into a week or a month.  There is no reason to stress out over choices you’ve made that are in the past, or attempt to undo the damage.  Instead,  review your fitness goals and your motivation for making this change.  Revisit your plan and stick to it.  Is there something you could do differently in the future to prevent future slip-ups?  Look at these slip-ups as learning experiences to prepare you for the obstacles and challenges you will run into in the future.

3. Strive for progress, not perfection.

Perfection can be the enemy of progress.  Many people look at making healthy changes with an all-or-nothing approach.  Too often, a minor slip-up can lead to an all-out binge as you figure, “Oh well, I’ve already blown it.”  Perfect adherence to your plan is nearly impossible.  Instead, strive to make progress each day.  In the end, you will find that small changes are more sustainable over the long-term.  Consistency is essential for success.

Getting off track defining your fitness goals4.  Look at slip-ups as learning experiences.

Slip-ups can be a great learning tool!  Not every slip-up can be prevented, and sometimes you truly need to just put the past in the past and move on.  But you may be able to look at a situation and come up with a future plan of attack.  Are you more prone to binge on sweets when you are overtired?  Make it a point to turn off the TV an hour earlier so you can get adequate rest.  Lacking motivation after work to make it to the gym?  Consider waking up early to get your workout in first thing in the morning.  Struggling to make healthy choices on your lunch break?  Spend a Sunday afternoon doing some food prep so you can have some easy grab-and-go choices.

5. Remember, it’s a marathon, not a sprint.

In our fast-paced society, its tempting to want to see quick results.  Remember that you are creating healthy habits that will change your lifestyle.  Be patient with yourself and be committed to trusting the process!  This doesn’t happen overnight.  Just keep moving forward, and you will be amazed when you look back and discover the healthy habits you have established are about as second-nature as brushing your teeth!

 

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Becca is a busy wife and homeschooling mother to five children ages 5 to 13. About three years ago, she embarked on a journey to health and fitness that resulted in the loss of approximately 100 pounds. Today, she is a competitive powerlifter and strongwoman who loves ice cream and deadlifts.  As an ISSA certified personal trainer, she is passionate about helping women to get started on a lifestyle of strength and fitness.

 

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Fitness Goals: Get Emotional! – Eat More 2 Weigh Less

Fitness Goals: Get Emotional! – Eat More 2 Weigh Less

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Challenge: 

Now that you have your list of fitness goals, look deeper into the reasons why you want to achieve them.  What is really driving you to make this change?  Maybe you want to set a better example for your kids or something similar.  Willpower is an exhaustible resource and having that emotional tie in to your goal will help pull you through the tough times.  Referring to this list regularly will help reinforce your commitment.

By now, you should have a clear-cut idea of the goals that you want to accomplish for this year. Hopefully you have a list of some outcome-based goals that you intend to work towards in accomplishing your main goals. And you’ve framed those goals in such a way that you are working on building positive habits, rather than eliminating negative ones.

Now it’s time to get personal and dig deep into the reasons for your motivation.  Why is it important for you to reach your goal? There are a number of reasons why you might set fitness goals. Maybe you want to set a better example for the little ones who are watching your every move, do away with high blood pressure, or feel more confident when you wear that bikini for your upcoming beach vacation.

 

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As you think about the factors that are motivating you, remember that ultimately YOU are your best motivator and it is YOU who needs to own this journey. You need to determine what will motivate you to keep going when your willpower runs out. Others may be able to encourage you, but it is YOU who must make the hard choices and remain consistent when you feel like giving up.

Remember to continue to cast your goals in a positive, not negative light. If you begin your goal setting process from the place of feeling disgusted with the way you look, it is highly likely that you will approach developing healthy habits as “punishment.” This is the wrong way to approach lasting lifestyle changes! If you view fitness and nutrition as punishment, you are far less likely to remain consistent. Change your mindset! Remaining consistent in the behaviors that will help you succeed in reaching your goals is an incredibly rewarding, not punishing experience.

fitness goalsThere is nothing wrong with wanting to be proud of the way that you look. However, placing too much emphasis on attaining a certain look can drain the joy out of life. Try to keep the focus of your goals on performance and outcomes. This can be incredibly difficult for us, particularly as women living in a culture that places so much emphasis on how we look. It is easy for us to become obsessive about the way we look, and often the truly important things in our lives suffer as a result. Self-loathing, body shaming, anxiety, depression, and perfectionism often are present in those who are overly concerned with their physical appearance. Unable to attain to this impossible standard of perfection, it is easy to temporarily stop caring, which unfortunately leads to more self-loathing, and the cycle continues.

Regardless of where you are right now in your journey, be proud of who you are and do not subject yourself to body shaming as a way to motivate yourself.  Don’t wait until you’ve accomplished your goals to feel great. Make sure you have plenty of options to look and feel your best, right now!

You may want to answer some questions in your fitness journal to help you think about the reasons for your goals.  Jotting down a a few thoughts will give you something to refer back to and remind you of why this is important when you feel your willpower diminishing.

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  • What goals do you have?
  • Why is it important for you to accomplish these goals?
  • What drives you?
  • What makes you feel happy?
  • How will you feel when you reach your goals?

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BeccaBecca is a busy wife and homeschooling mother to five children ages 5 to 13. About three years ago, she embarked on a journey to health and fitness that resulted in the loss of approximately 100 pounds. Today, she is a competitive powerlifter and strongwoman who loves ice cream and deadlifts.  As an ISSA certified personal trainer, she is passionate about helping women to get started on a lifestyle of strength and fitness.

 

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