Matching Eating and Exercise to Training Goals

Matching Eating and Exercise to Training Goals

training goalsA common thread that I find as I engage on different fitness/diet forums, and even conversations with friends and family, is randomness.  One particular area of confusion seems to be with fat loss and training goals.  I often have women (and a few men!) tell me that because they are in a fat loss phase they don’t need to lift weights, or at least not heavy ones.  For some reason there has been a general consensus over the years, that the only way to “cut” is to ditch the heavy weight and move to strictly circuit routines and 3lb Barbie weights, while OD’ing on cardio.  While the addition of a little cardio can certainly assist in fat burning, I think that somewhere along the line confusion has set in as to methods on how to cut (aka shed fat).

When cutting, you won’t purposely be lifting lighter (I hope!), though, you may lighten the weights (slightly) on occasion to accommodate for moving faster in certain workouts, when applicable.  It is harder to lift heavy during circuit work (if you choose to incorporate such workouts), but that does not mean you drop the 30# and head for the 3#.  Because cutting is all about the eats, a person who is in a caloric deficit for any length of time may begin to lose strength, thus having to lower the poundage.  This is, again, only as low as necessary to complete the amount of reps, yet still hitting failure toward the end of the set.

training goalsMany men (and some women!) even take it a step further and NEVER want to cut,  feeling it will undo all of their muscle building efforts.  They’ve heard that muscle loss comes with cutting territory, and they fear it almost as much as the ladies fear the fat gain that comes with bulking.   While this is true, it is the same that I addressed in the post on fat gain when bulking, these “side effects” are minimal when done correctly, and neither will “undo” the other unless we go too “extreme” in either phase (meaning grossly over eat in bulk w/minimal activity or grossly under eat in cut w/too much activity).  If we are careful not to hit extremes, there are only a few tweaks here and there needed that will allow us to receive benefits from both phases.

It’s the extreme combo of cardio/deficit eating that will possibly cause muscle catabolization. Muscle is extremely hard to build on women, so we have to take extra care when doing the things that oppose muscle growth (i.e. eating in a deficit, doing excess cardio). It’s basically the equivalent to eating cheesecake and a diet coke, or a salad w/a milkshake (or any of the other quirky things that we do where one thing we’re doing is cancelling out the other)… So when you’re in a mode like that, getting lean while sparing as much muscle as possible, is the goal.

OK, enough rambling…back to the training goals…

training goalsAs I began to truly focus on my goals, my bulks got progressively longer each year, because I was realizing that my body was willing to let go of more muscle than I wanted/had (I realized that I didn’t have nearly as much as I assumed, but that’s another ramble).  So my training goal became to build as much muscle as possible, so that when I added in the cardio/deficit,  I wouldn’t lose as much.   But I also chose to keep lifting the same, regardless of the mode (not exactly the same, but more on that later).  So assuming that one had a similar goal, doing that, plus eating properly (and getting enough protein) will aid in keeping the muscle you’ve built, until you head into your next muscle build mode.

Your changes should come from your eats whenever possible, cardio comes second. Remember this:

  • Building muscle requires eating at a *slight* surplus, lifting heavy, and going easy on the cardio
  • Losing fat requires eating at a *slight* deficit, lifting heavy, and burning more calories than you’re taking in
  • Maintenance requires “maintenance” calorie eating (obviously), lifting heavy, and enough cardio to stay healthy/maintain your current physique

training goalsAs you can see, the only factor they have in common is the lifting.  Everything else is total opposite, that’s why we need to choose which one is the most important, and go with that. Once we switch to another phase, we have to keep in mind to not look for the effects/benefits of a phase that we are not in. So, when building muscle, it’s inevitable that you will gain even *slight* amounts of fat along w/it since you’re eating in surplus…when burning fat, it’s inevitable that you could lose *slight* amounts of muscle since you’re eating in a deficit- they’re just two opposite ends of the spectrum- but *slight* does not mean all.

Think of it as getting your hair trimmed, you trim some, so that it will grow longer, and healthier. You’re not cutting it all off, just enough to keep it healthy. So if you wanted to grow your hair out, you’d let it grow a lot, trim a little, & repeat, until it was at the desired length, right? So the best thing is to use each phase to our advantage, get in, and get out (unless it’s a phase that we choosing to linger in for whatever reason – like maintenance…)

So pick your fitness cycle, as if you’re heading to the salon. What are you going for? Are you headed for growth (just need a little trim, just enough to get the splits)? Are you looking for a shock, whatever the cost (new color, chop it all off)? Or are you just getting regular maintenance / upkeep (good deep condition, color touch up, wash & style)?

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How to Pick a Personal Trainer

How to Pick a Personal Trainer

How to pick a personal trainerHow to Pick a Personal Trainer…

I’ve noticed a trend…

Many people make the decision to follow the EM2WL lifestyle, and then head out to seek a local Certified Personal Trainer to assist them on their journey. However, merely days into the training (sometimes even after the first session) they will come back to us in a state of confusion, because they have received conflicting information and don’t know which to follow. As a trainer, I’ve made a couple of observations of how some (including myself) do things differently from most. Knowing the different schools of thought can help you to interview & pick the personal trainer that is best for you.

Work Harder

Most trainers know that they have a limited amount of time to make an impact. The client needs to see results, and they need to see them fast, or else they are quickly moving on. Most of the “stay the course,” “be consistent,” “trust the process” lines that we throw out there are not often used in mainstream training, because, quite frankly, clients don’t want to hear it. A personal trainer that wants a client to keep coming back for more has to achieve a LOT in a small amount of time, or at least enough to make an impact. So one way to do this is to work you very hard within the first few sessions, so that you can see that you work much harder with them, than you did before they came into the picture. Often, a bit more cardio than necessary may be thrown in for good measure, to make sure that you feel “worked.”

Eat Less

How to pick a personal trainerAnother way a personal trainer can make that impact, is by telling you that your current cal intake (whatever it may be) is too high. This lowering of cals is almost a guaranteed drop in lbs within the first week or so, simply because the cals were high(er), and now they’re not. Having such a significant drop in lbs within the first week or so will buy the trainer MUCH more time with that client, because they have earned their trust. If they can quickly get you to drop weight, then long after you’ve stopped going to them, and gained the weight back, (because you’ve gone back to eating normal, and working out in your regular manner) you’ll always remember how you had “better” results when you worked with them. You’ll go back (at your higher cal intake)  they will have you drop calories (again), while kicking your butt with the workouts. So as long as you stay with them, and dependent on them, you both “win.”

Business is business

I can’t knock the trainers that use these methods, because, quite honestly, they are very lucrative. But, ethically, I just can’t do it. I don’t mind showing a person that they can work harder than they have been, but I’d never recommend more exercise, or less food, than is necessary. My goal as a trainer (and the type of trainer I suggest you look for when interviewing) is to allow a person to develop a plan of attack that will fit into their lives, and that will apply long after our session is over. A client needs to become self-sufficient, and know what to do when the trainer is no longer around.  I have no desire to become a persons fad diet.

The true cost

How to pick a personal trainerAlthough it’s harder to look a client in the eye and tell them to do the opposite of everything that they’ve read, and that they shouldn’t expect any results from working with me for at least the first month, it sets the standard for our relationship right off the bat. I let them know that I will not withhold any “secrets” from them in what they need to reach their goals, my tactics are simple: fuel your body, work hard, and stay consistent.

The client needs to be committed to a lifestyle, not just trying to fit into their skinny jeans by next Friday.

There are enough trainers out there that can help them accomplish that, but I am trying to help them fit into their skinny jeans for the rest of their lives. They will leave our sessions armed with info to help themselves and others around them. I may lose a bit more peeps that way, who aren’t willing to wait, but that is fine, because I need to see that the person wants what I’m trying to give, with the same passion that I give it.

Find a personal trainer that empowers you to make your own decisions in due time, and has former clients that have had long-term results, not just *fast* results….. unless that is what YOU want.

Should “normal” women train like a body builder?

 Should “normal” women train like a body builder?

Q: I heard you guys discuss cutting and bulking, so I Googled it. I wonder if so much of what I read regarding separating “bulking” with “cutting” is for the bodybuilding, “big muscle” guys/girls. I am a 47 year old, who just wants to lose fat and show definition in my muscles so my body has a nice shape, not be a body builder.  As I am working out, I keep wondering, okay, am I suppose to be in “building” mode here? But I still have fat I want to lose. I am more regularly checking the body fat % on my scale (28.2 now). Based on my goals do I need to be eating more?

A: Googling the words “bulking/cutting” will definitely bring up bodybuilding type sites, and visions of men gorging themselves in the name of “building muscle” which is why most women shun it. However, this is not the image that we should first think of. At EM2WL, we often use the terms “bulking” and “cutting” synonymously with “building muscle” and “losing fat,” respectively. These terms are not to be feared, but understood, even if only on their most basic level. Certain goals have an environment in which they thrive best, and yes, “normal” folk (especially, women) would greatly benefit from using such precise strategies. Even in basic personal training studies for how to train “normal” people the exact same process is discussed (it is referred to as “periodization”).

Most women want a certain “look,” but fail to realize that they are not eating enough, or doing the type of workouts required to build muscle. Others, don’t even realize that the “look” that they want requires muscle. Don’t let the terms confuse you. The simplicity of it all is what makes us think there has to be more to it. It doesn’t matter how old you are, in order to build muscle, you have to eat more. The muscle you build will burn the fat 10xs faster than the “mainstream” methods basically spinning your wheels, keeping cals low, and exercise high. You probably already know that you won’t get bulky from lifting weights. But, we also have to remember that it is seriously, excruciatingly, hard for women to pack on muscle, and most highly overestimate how much they have. Seeing as we can only gain a max of .25 lbs of muscle per week, it takes a while to pack on a serious amount of muscle, & most of the “bigger” muscle women have done the bulk/cut process for over a decade to pack on that amount of muscle w/o steroids.

The added benefit of being a “recreational” lifter, is that you “bulk” or “cut” at a schedule that works for you, not according to a contest.Which means that you could bulk a month or a year, depending in what you’re comfortable with (realizing that even a whole year of bulking would still barely put on a MAX of 12lbs of muscle). Plus remember the other benefits, when you go through a bulk, it also helps to reset your metabolism, which means when you go back to your “cut” the weight loss process is much easier (& comfortable due to being able to cut at higher cals than before) and because of the muscle that you were building (that is now scorching fat) you typically don’t have to lose anywhere near the same amount as before.

So fuel properly, and don’t be afraid to lift heavy…you won’t turn into a body builder. Promise. No one ever went to sleep and woke up “too” buff.

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Helene – “Finally found something that works for me!!” (and NOT decreasing calories!)

Helene – “Finally found something that works for me!!” (and NOT decreasing calories!)

decreasing caloriesHi, my name is Helene and I’m a 43-year old married, mother of four. Two sets of twins, to be more specific. Two sets of twins who are two years apart, to be…well, insane. You got to roll with the punches, right?

Growing up, weight was never an issue for me. If anything, I was underweight…not by choice, of course. I ate whatever my mom put in front of me. She controlled every morsel that went in my mouth…or didn’t go in my mouth. Not that she starved me or anything but I wasn’t one of those kids who had free access to the pantry or the refrigerator. And she never bought “junk food”. I don’t think I actually knew what a twinkie tasted like until my college years.

Speaking of college years, it was the first time in my life where I had the freedom to do my own grocery shopping. I went a little wild…eating whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted. If I wanted a soda at 3 am, my mom wasn’t there to prevent me from drinking it.

decreasing caloriesFortunately, and thanks to a fast metabolism, I didn’t gain too much weight and the weight I did gain, I was able to take off fairly quickly. What I loved my most about my body was how proportionate it was…I was your classic 36-24-36 kind of girl. My arms were toned and sculpted, my tummy was tight and flat and my legs were muscular and lean.

And then I got married…and had kids. Poof….my perfect body was gone. Just like that.

I had four kids, ages two and under….a husband who often traveled out of town on business…and I was frumpy and bloated and frustrated. Oh, and tired. Very very tired.

When I had time to eat, it wasn’t usually something healthy. And exercise? Who had time for that? I could barely squeeze in a 2-minute shower on most days.

decreasing caloriesOver the course of four years, I continued to gain more weight. And if I was in denial about exactly how heavy I had gotten, my mother was there to point it out, often making comments such as, “Helene, you’ve gained so much weight!” and “You’re getting as big as a house!” As if I couldn’t look in a mirror and see it for myself?

It wasn’t until I ran into an old friend at the store one day and instead of raving about how great I looked, she smiled politely at me and said, “Wow, it’s been awhile!” I immediately went into self-hatred mode and said, “I’m surprised you even recognized me, considering how fat I’ve gotten!”

She shrugged and said, “Cut yourself some slack. You just had another set of twins!”

“Yeah,” I answered. “FOUR years ago!”

I sobbed the whole way home, incredibly disappointed in myself. It was then that I vowed to make some positive changes. How could I expect my kids to eat healthy foods and be active when I wasn’t exactly the best role model? I didn’t want to be the “couch potato mom”, watching my kids from the sideline. I wanted to be the mom running alongside her kids, keeping up with them and cheering them on.

decreasing caloriesAt that point, two friends and I joined a gym and hired a personal trainer. This was the first time in my life I had ever lifted weights and I fell in love with it. It made me feel strong…powerful…invincible.

Our trainer continued to challenge us….box jumps, Bosu burpees, walking lunges carrying 25-lb kettlebells in each hand, walking on the treadmill at a 10% incline with a 50-lb child on my back. Every time I said, “I don’t think I can do this”, our trainer was right there screaming, “Yes, you can!” And I did.

Now that I had a regular workout routine in place, it was time to focus on my diet. When my trainer said I wasn’t eating enough food, I laughed in her face. In fact, I think I might have even snorted once or twice.

She went through the whole “your muscles need fuel, you’re starving yourself, blah, blah, blah” speech with me but I refused to listen. Finally, I agreed to increase my calories from 1200 a day to 1400 a day but that was my limit.

Within a couple weeks of eating 1400 calories, the weight began falling off of me at a quicker rate. Hmmm, maybe she was onto something here. So I increased again to 1500-1600 calories. And the weight continued to come off. My trainer continued desperately to get me to increase to 1700-1800 calories but I wasn’t hearing any of it.

decreasing caloriesIn my mind, it made absolutely no sense to eat more than 1500-1600 calories a day. And sometimes, honestly, even THAT felt like a lot.

After 6 months, my commitment to work out with a trainer was done and I had lost a total of 25 pounds. People were noticing the changes in my body, especially my husband. I cried tears of joy when I went through my closet, found the dress I had worn at our rehearsal dinner the night before we were married and it fit!!!

I continued working out on my own and managed to lose another 7 pounds. But then I hit a plateau, which was extremely frustrating considering how hard I was working out.

So I did what most people do when they hit a plateau… decreasing calories back down to 1200. It makes sense, right? Decrease your calories = lose weight. It should be that simple.

decreasing caloriesProblem is…it’s not that simple. Well, in the first week it was. I dropped about 4 pounds (probably mostly water and some hard-earned muscle). And the second week, I lost another 2 pounds (and more muscle).

Then I got stuck….again. I decreased my calories down to 1000. Not only was I hungry all the time, I was miserable and cranky. I watched other people enjoy their food, eating whatever they wanted, and I secretly wished on them an embarrassing case of explosive diarrhea.

Before I knew it, Thanksgiving and Christmas were upon us and after being stuck for a couple months at the same weight and virtually starving ALL. THE. TIME. I waved the white flag and allowed myself to eat whatever wasn’t nailed down.

Feeling miserable and defeated, I ended up gaining 20 of the 32 pounds back.

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March 2012

One evening, after the kids were in bed and my husband was on a business trip, I was flipping through the tv channels and stumbled upon an infomercial for Jillian Michael’s Body Revolution. I was intrigued and continued watching it, thinking, “I could do that! I CAN do that! I WILL do that!”

I googled it, found the website and ordered it almost immediately. Then I went in search of others online who were also doing the program, as a means of encouragement and support.

I ended up on My Fitness Pal and found a wonderful group of people who were also doing the program.

When I received the DVD’s in the mail, I poured through the information and began the program the next day. While I enjoyed the workouts immensely, I wasn’t enjoying the food plan, which only allowed for 1200 calories a day. My tummy growled almost all day long and I barely had enough energy to get through the workouts. There was no way I could continue this for another 11 weeks.

decreasing caloriesThat’s when I found the Eat More 2 Weigh Less group on MFP. I stayed up late one night reading all the threads on the forum and trying to wrap my head around the process. I plugged my numbers into one of the online calculators and was completely blown away that not only was my BMR 1576 but my TDEE was 2400!!

I decided to increase my calories slowly, going from 1200 to 1400. And then from 1400 slowly up to 1800. I lost three pounds within the first week but then I got stuck losing and gaining the same lousy two pounds.

My brain screamed, “Decrease your calories! You’re eating too much!!” but my gut told me that there was something to this EM2WL process. I can’t explain it but I truly, whole-heartedly believed this would work for me. So, without hesitation, I increased my calories to 1900 and my weight began the downward spiral yet again.

I invested in a BodyMedia Fit so I could get the most accurate numbers possible. Imagine how shocked I was to learn that my actual TDEE was around 2800!! So even eating 1900 calories still wasn’t enough!!

Now, I’ve finally got a handle on things and I can say with all honesty that I love this way of living. Since I’ve been consistently eating the same amount of calories day in and day out, I’m dropping anywhere from .5 to 1.5 pounds a week.

In the 3 months I’ve been part of the EM2WL group, I’ve lost 9 pounds and over 20 inches. 9 pounds in 3 months may not seem like a lot but just look at my pictures and you can see how much my body has transformed in that short period of time. Last year at this time, I was 15 pounds lighter but my measurements are EXACTLY the same now as they were back then!

decreasing caloriesI cannot imagine ever going back to eating 1200 calories again. Or even 1500 calories. This is not a diet for me. It is a lifestyle change. I eat a clean diet for the most part but I do indulge in treats about 1-2 times a week. Nothing is off limits for me as I have learned how to integrate any food I want into my calories and macros.

I’ve completed the Jillian Michael’s Body Revolution program and have since moved on to ChaLEAN Extreme and Turbo Fire. My workout schedule includes 3 days of strength training and 2-3 days of cardio. I also enjoy swimming and bike riding, which I’ll sometimes do in place of a cardio DVD.

It’s all about being informed and making good, healthy choices. I now think of food not as the enemy but as fuel for my body.

decreasing caloriesInstead of feeling badly for what I’ve put my body through these last few years, I thank it now. It was strong enough to grow and give birth to 4 beautiful children. So the least I can do is continue to reward it with a healthy amount of nutritious foods.

Of course, I’m still in the middle of my journey. I have about 30 more pounds to lose. However, I don’t see myself giving up out of frustration like I have in the past. I have finally found something that works for me (and it does not involve decreasing calories)!!

 

Read part two of Helene’s journey here.

Update: Nicole – Metabolic Reset: week 3

Update: Nicole – Metabolic Reset: week 3

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Update: Nicole – Metabolic Reset: week 3

Catch the beginning of Nicole’s Journey here

Hi Lucia/Kiki,

Just thought I’d send in a quick update on my metabolic reset progress:

I’m just starting week 3 of my metabolic reset. My bloat is finally gone, my weight seems to have temporarily stabilized at a one pound gain since starting the reset (for a total of 5 lbs).  My jeans fit more comfortably again (I was unable to wear them 2 weeks ago if I wanted to also breath), and on top of it all, I am STARVING all the time!! I really understand now when people say it’s like they woke up a monster!

I’m so excited though because these are exactly the types of symptoms I’ve been waiting for these past 10 weeks since starting to up calories! That’s a long wait, but now I can see some awesome signs that I’m waking up that metabolism! Whoo-hoo!!

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