Weight Lifting For Women – My Arms Are Getting Bulky

Weight Lifting For Women – My Arms Are Getting Bulky

Weight Lifting for Women

Weight Lifting For WomenQ So I’ve been on a bulk, to put on more muscle on my arms.  I’m lifting HEAVY, and my arms are gaining size, but now DH says I have “man arms”…are they supposed to be big like this? I know dumb question. They are not that cut yet but definitely when I flex you can see and feel something big there. Will I get more of a cut and defined look in them?  

A:   Right now — since you’re bulking — they may seem bigger.  Although you know there’s good muscle under there, the muscle lines are probably smoother (not clearly defined)?  Is that what you’re seeing?  If so, that’s perfectly normal.  You are building muscle and eating to support that phase — which likely means a bit more carbs, and the water retention that comes with it.  This will even out again when you start to cut and eat to support that phase.  But, since the two use opposite eating techniques, you’re on the right track.  The more muscle that you build, the more is left behind when you cut.  With weight lifting for women, it’s very hard for women to put on (and keep!) muscle.  So don’t fret too much, and tell Hubs that it’s all part of the process.  The softness is typically more prominent if we start our bulk at a higher bodyfat percentage — because our muscle starts to come up under a layer of fat, pushing the fat outward (making it more visible).  It worries us because we think we’re getting too bulky.   But when the fat sheds,  you’re left with a lean and tight physique because of the muscle you built.  This trumps simply getting smaller, but still looking the same “per capita” (as my husband likes to say).  

That explains why I choose to do my bulking in the cooler months.  Because when I get to the phase that would make me wanna slash my calories and run for the hills (or the elliptical),  I can just cover up and train,  satisfied that no one knows what’s going on under there (other than Hubs, lol), and by the time they do…I’ve got it all together, again.    

 

Q: Yes!  EXACTLY what you said is going on.  When do I know the building phase is over and go into the cutting phase? And what is involved in the cutting phase, eating less calories? 

A:  Short answer?  Build until you can’t take it anymore/clothes don’t fit/Hubs thinks you’re fat/create your own reason, then cut.

Ramble version? 

The concept of gaining any type of weight on purpose is just unheard of these days.  This is why I LOVED the old Oxygen mag issues (from beginning up until the early 2000’s) — they discussed this concept freely, so you knew what you needed to go through in order to get the results you wanted.   They didn’t just show you pics of ripped models and say “you can have these (abs, arms, legs, etc) in just FOUR weeks!”   They gave you a workout routine, but they also gave you the stats of each model.   They told you her age, height, current AND off-season weight.  Did you get that? OFF season weight.  That’s the crucial part.  Most people don’t understand the fact that those women only look like that for their photo shoots or competitions.  They look like normal women the rest of the year.  Each competitor snapshot would ask the woman how long her bulk or cut phases lasted and what exactly that woman does to bulk/cut.  It was priceless.  It only took reading through those a few times in order to find someone with similar qualities as you, get a good idea of how long you need to put into each phase, and what to expect in your “off” season (bulk/maintenance).  

This is still especially good info to know, so that women don’t panic and go back to a never-ending diet.  Women have now been led to think that they can just pick a random routine and look like the ladies in the mags that took YEARS to pack on enough muscle to build the physique that we see.  They want the cover model physiques, but are so sensitive about weight gain, or clothes fitting too tight — not realizing it may be the exact thing they need (temporarily) to get the physique they crave.  It’s frustrating.

 

Most competitors/fitness models have an off-season.  WE JUST DON’T SEE THEM during that time.  But if we look hard enough, we will notice subtle changes in their body depending on what they’ve been doing.  We can also see that when doing any fitness instructor’s class or videos, her (or his) body is always changing.  Sometimes the muscle is really defined, sometimes it’s not.  The same holds true for any fitness pro that we look up to, maintenance is really a myth, our bodies are always changing.  Basically there’s a difference between this: 


AND THIS

 OR THIS


See what I mean?

Being consciously aware of this and going through muscle building (bulking) phases as needed, makes sure that your physique stays in the general vicinity of what your ideal is.  If you never specifically attempt to build muscle, you will likely lose some as years progress. 

FYI- the process becomes less noticeable after you repeat it a couple of times.  You will be able to stay in build (aka EAT) mode for longer, before it gets…uncomfortable.  You will becoming leaner, with a lower bodyfat percentage to layer over the muscle.  So it’s an ongoing process…build until you feel fat, cut until you feel lean enough, maintain until you feel like you’re losing muscle tone/want to put on more muscle.

“Bulk Cut Cycles” or “Fitness Cycles”

Q: I’ve heard you talk a lot about you being in different “phases.”  Can you describe how you, personally incorporate the 5 Phases of EM2WL?  Especially your bulk/cut cycles? 

A:  While I’m mostly in maintenance/chill now, it took a while to get here.  I spent several years focused on getting my eats up, rebuilding my muscle mass, and increasing my metabolism with bulk cycles. Throughout the course of a year, I rotated mainly through 3-4 of the phases.  This is because my “bulk” phases negated the need to “reset.”  Here’s an example of how I (personally) cycled through the phases in my early years:

bulk cut cyclesPhase 1: Bulk –  This is when I’d eat slightly above maintenance level, and lift as heavy as possible.

Remember: eating above maintenance, is needed in order to add on muscle.

This is typically when I’d do a 3-6 month muscle-based periodized program*, that relied heavily on my 1 rep max being figured in.  I did minimal cardio, only as needed for health purposes (0-2xs/week, sessions around 30 min), but   I did not focus on losing weight at all during this time.

I’d still weigh in on occasion, as the goal was a controlled, and purposeful gain – not simply a free-for-all with the word “bulk” slapped on it (in the old-school bodybuilding sense, LOL).  I’d still keep the eats similar to how they’d be in a cut – just ate more of it.  Protein didn’t change, but I’d add in a bit more carbs than during my cut and try to keep the protein as high as possible.

During the bulking phase,  I kept a close eye on my body fat levels, more-so than the actual weight on the scale. If the weight was going up, but body fat was staying steady, I’d keep going – if it was vice versa, I tighten up the eats, or move on to the cut phase.

I gain fat almost as easily as I gain muscle, so the bulking phase was always an extremely delicate balance for me.  I’d usually plan for it to last for 3-5 months OR until my clothes began to get uncomfortable (the clothes often won, LOL).  I naturally picked Fall/Winter for this phase, as dressing in looser fitting layers most of the time, and being sensitive (mentally) to scale fluctuations made it easer to stick it out for as long as possible.

bulk cut cyclesPhase 2: Cut – I’d typically start this phase early spring (March/April) in order to deflate a bit (bulking water retention is REAL!) and prepare mentally for the lighter fabrics (and less layers) of the up-coming season.

Depending on how “clean” my bulk phase was, this typically ran pretty smoothly.  I’d begin by slowly (and by slow, I mean s.l.o.w) lowering my cals on a week by week basis…IF needed.  If I was seeing results, I stayed until I didn’t anymore.  If I hit my max cal lowering point, and results had come to a halt. I’d go back up to maintenance for a week or two, and then lower them again.

If I was still at a standstill, I’d adjust the workouts using the same strategy.  I’d slowly increase the volume, load, or density of my workouts (ex: lifting 5-6 days instead of 3-4, adding sets or reps, reducing rest periods, replacing split workouts with a few full body/circuit workouts in order to invoke the “cardio factor” into every workout, increasing NEAT, etc).

The reason that I emphasize how slowly I moved is because depending on how long my cut phase would last, I needed to be able to continue to adjust with each plateau. This is why my results rarely stagnated for long.  Also, I like to be able to lose fat, while still eating as much as possible, and to still have another “trick” up my sleeve, so to speak.   So I never got super restrictive with my cals (i.e. going below 1800) or excessive with my cardio (ie. more than 3xs/week) until I was almost at the finish line, so that I didn’t subject my body to it for more than 2-4 weeks MAX.

I never wanted my body to just adjust to high cardio and low cals, and think that it was the new norm, because there was no way that I could keep it up.  Engaging in something so unsustainable at the beginning of a long cut, would be setting myself up for failure.  So basically, stubborn fat loss tricks stayed up my sleeve unless 100% necessary…

bulk cut cyclesPhase 3: Maintain/Chill – If all went well up until this point (typically around June/July), this period would be smooth sailing.  I pretty much kick back and enjoy the fruits of my labor during this point, knowing that I’m ready for an impromptu trip to the beach or other random event where skin may be involved, lol.  (And if things hadn’t gone well…well, I went shopping and figured out how to enjoy it anyway!)

This is when I’d enjoy doing any and all workouts, not necessarily focusing fat loss, muscle building or on any one particular thing.

This is when I’d allow myself to be more random (seeking more mental vs physique results from my workouts).  For example: I’d do body-part splits and full body workouts in the same week (like two splits, one full), and begin to tone down the cardio just a bit – unless it involved some fun in the sun.  For me, Summer was the perfect time to enjoy some of my workout DVD’s that may have been neglected during specific phases.  They’d give me any variety or autonomy that I may have been missing, and allow me to stay in shape.

But I did not depend on them to do anything specific for my body other than that.

My eats slowly increased back to maintenance level (I’d re-test it each year by slowly increasing to see what my new maintenance was) which was typically slightly higher than it was the year before, thanks to the added muscle!  And after a period of logging at my new maintenance level, I’d take a break from logging altogether and just enjoy the season (Chill!)

*You can get access to the exact workouts that I create for trainers, gyms, and my own clients via The EM2WL Method Workout App.


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Q:  Will I not succeed/not build muscle/not lose weight/plateau/fall off the face of the earth, if I don’t do your “fitness cycles” or “bulk cut cycles”?

A:  Maybe it’s time for my disclaimer… So, here it goes:

I’m not saying that everyone wanting to build muscle must do it in the same phases that I do, or even use the traditional “bodybuilding” cut/bulk cycles.   After years of trial & error, that is the method that I (Kiki) found works best for me, helps me to put on a good amount of muscle, and (most importantly) is convenient.  For my lifestyle, it is just more practical to build muscle, deal with any unexpected “puffiness,” and eat more calorie dense foods starting right around Thanksgiving (convenient/brilliant, huh?).  It is also more practical for me to eat less, do more cardio etc. when the weather is warmer, we are having active family outings, my garden is in full swing- so I have lots of fresh fruit/vegetables, and my hens (yes, I really have hens) are popping those suckers (eggs) out by the dozen.  In addition to that, there are more clothing layers in cool months, so I can maneuver the clothing enough to look as if nothing has changed – a lot harder to do in warm months where more skin is exposed.  I’ve learned the hard way that FOR ME, attempting to lose weight during the holidays, is equally as futile as trying to bulk during bathing suit season (been there, done that…DISASTER).   My body is way too sensitive to the fluctuations/water retention, and it always backfires.

bulk cut cyclesSo THAT’S how I chose, and it’s made my (and my family’s) life much more pleasant.  But, if that’s not YOUR convenient schedule then you may need your cycles to be shorter/at different times of the year.  Maybe you don’t want to give yourself that much leeway on the scale, or you have events going on all year round where more “body” is exposed, or you live in a warm/cold climate year round.  You can set your goals accordingly.  You can stay in certain phases longer/shorter.  You could do a gradual body recomposition throughout the year inserting 4-6 weeks dedicated solely to building muscle throughout the year, as often as it can fit, or do one month build, one month cut, etc..  There are many paths, but you SHOULD try to chose one, just walking aimlessly through your fitness journey should no longer be an option.

For more info/ideas on doing a body recomp, check out sites like Lyle McDonald’s website, Body Recompostion.  He’s big on finding your happy medium, and the “bulk a little, cut a little” concept.

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